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The
Fortune Cookie and the Feast
This
is the time of year when many diets swerve off the side of the road
and end up in multi-helping pileups. The many opportunities to put
food in our bellies, however, ought also to become food for thought.
Although we have lost the primordial
meaning behind the feasts we recognize (how many of us, for example,
celebrated Thanksgiving by emerging from months of semi-starvation
in urgent need of replenishing depleted fat reserves?), celebrations
that revolve around food and overeating date back to prehistoric
times. The feasts we attend at this time of year mark national,
religious, and seasonal occasions whereby we symbolically relive
experiences that bind us together in a common future.
Even on a daily basis, however,
eating goes to the core of human culture. This was brought home
to me in a very practical way when I was working at Chinese restaurants
as a graduate student. Among the food items offered was one that
was completely new to me—the fortune cookie. Although some
historians have suggested that the inspiration for fortune cookies
came from the 14th century, when Chinese soldiers slipped messages
into moon cakes
to help coordinate their overthrow of Mongolian invaders, fortune
cookies have never been a part of Chinese food culture. The fortune
cookie is entirely a U.S. invention, but just where in America these
cookies were first made is a matter for debate. One story says that
Canton-native David Jung, a Los Angeles baker, began making cookies
containing thin slips of paper bearing inspirational messages sometime
around 1920. No matter when they began, you will rarely eat in a
Chinese-American restaurant without receiving one at the end of
the meal. The thing that amazed me was that, no matter how quiet
the party at the table might have been throughout the meal, when
the diners broke open the cookies to reveal their fortunes, they
almost always took turns reading them aloud and sharing their thoughts.
Thus, a group of people who might have left immediately after the
meal had they been in some other kind of restaurant, often stayed
and talked for another 20 minutes or more after the fortune cookie
course. Hardly anyone considers who might have started this conversation,
or that it might have been the person who wrote those fortunes.
A recent article in the New
Yorker (June 6, 2005) identified one central character in the
fortune cookie story. Donald Lau, a vicepresident of Wonton Food,
manages the company’s accounts payable and receivable, negotiates
with insurers, and—almost incidentally— composes the
fortunes that go into the four million cookies the Wonton factory
produces each day. Lau got the job simply because his English was
the best among the group that bought the baking company, and because
the fortunes the company had been using needed updating. Lau admits
that at first the writing came easily and he could crank out three
or four maxims a day. But now, eleven years into his tenure as a
fortune cookie author, he has run out of ideas and is recycling
old fortunes. He has begun to worry that readers will notice that
the cookies are in reruns.
Luckily, we no longer suffer
the reruns of seasonal food shortages as did our ancestors. Our
celebrations now, as the anthropologist Marvin Harris once noted,
are “merely occasions for raising prior consumption levels
from more than enough to far more than enough.” For some of
us, however, the situations and conversations characterizing these
seasonal gatherings will be similar to the recycled fortunes Mr.
Lau worries about. There will be, as usual, too much to eat and
drink, and there will also be the same people who tell the same
stories over and over. Just as there will be those we genuinely
look forward to seeing, there will be those who continue to irritate
us. To experience these gatherings as mere reruns, however, is to
miss the cultural core of such events because these gatherings are
not reruns. Rather they are opportunities that give meaning to our
lives by enabling the exchange of news and stories about relatives
in faraway places or ancestors long gone. We may also discover that
others are experiencing life and its cycles and challenges in ways
similar to our own. For our children, these reunions are even more
important because they emphasize the significance of family and
social connections in ways far more powerful than words. Even young
children are made aware of belonging to a social entity larger than
themselves, their siblings, and their parents. They are given tangible
knowledge of themselves as parts of human lineages to which they,
in time, will also contribute.
These seasonal rituals are special
for yet another reason: more and more families no longer share meals
at a common table but eat separately or on the run. This phenomenon
presumably reflects the inescapable realities of modern life, but
it also says something about the ties that bind us together and
the values at the core of our culture. Children who end up eating
most of their meals on their own will make it to soccer practice
on time but will experience less family solidarity. Although it
may seem like an endless series of reruns to children, it is not
just the fact that sharing a family meal probably provides better
nourishment, or that eating together teaches manners, it’s
the time spent sharing thoughts that matters.
So, whether it is a feast with
a large group, or simply a small family meal, as we take our places
at festive tables in the days ahead, we should welcome the opportunity
to sit and talk a little longer than we might otherwise. We need
to turn off the distractions of modern life for a while and connect
with those around us. Perhaps we all need fortune cookies to break
open to remind us to share our thoughts at these gatherings; the
fortunes ought to be the messages inside our hearts.
All of us at the Center for the
Humanities offer all our readers the very best of fortunes over
the holiday season and the New Year.
Jian Leng, Associate Director
The Center for the Humanities
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